You can call me the most pragmatic person on this planet, but I think that married couples need to "survive their marriage". I know that sounds wrong and maybe unethical, thats the blatant truth.
Marriages are not made in heaven, couples are. Marriage is a complex combination of surviving expectations, separation, sexual frustration, conflicts, cheating spouses, kids, social interventions, inlaws, parents and much more.
I believe matches are made in heaven, but we with our twisted and cynical mind, bend, overanalyze, and finally destroy and kill this beautiful "devine matchmaking".
Human race has always been against nature. We have never adhered to the rules of nature. We consume natural resources like they were meant for us to consume, well they were meant to give us shelter and a balanced ecosystem and we don't have the right to destroy it.
We make the same mistake with "devine matchmaking". Let the almighty decide for you. I look for signs...and trust me there are signs everywhere. You just have to trust your gut feeling.
Love you all...
This is Ron, signing off...